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I've got something to tell everyone; (serious topic)
Topic Started: Jul 25 2012, 08:14 PM (300 Views)
smilingCesspool
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I'm apologizing in advanced, this is a tough topic for me and I've had bad experiences about this. I'm sorry I hadn't said anything sooner, the last forum I was on made fun of me for what I'm about to say. They said I was looking for attention... I want you guys to know that this has nothing to do with attention. In fact, I probably wouldn't have even said anything if it weren't for Galaxy and Drown motivating me to come out to the azstuck about this... 

I'm transgendered. I'm a girl... 

I recently came out to my parents about this, and instead of the loving support I was hoping for... they're trying to change me. They say I'm lying, that I'm confused and being controlled by the Devil....

(I myself am also a Christian, but I know my parents aren't right. If anything, being  transgendered has only brought me closer to my faith!)

Galaxy and Drown have been trying to get me to tell you guys for a while now... They both are extremely amazing people and I don't know what I'd do without them. Thank you to you both :)

Thanks for taking the time to read this :) I hope you guys understand... If anyone has any questions, feel free to ask...! I'll try my best to answer.

Alternatively, if anyone else has something they'd like to get off their chest, feel free to use this topic! Maybe we can change this to the 'feels thread' or something, I don't know...
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solReaper
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It's no big, you're still a person.

+1 support
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TurbroPunz
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You've mentioned this (though not in specifics) to me already, and I'm still saying that it's perfectly fine. This changes no feelings towards you from me, though I may accidentally forget to use the right pronouns (and please, feel free to correct me on this)

If anyone here starts being a jackass to you for this, I'll them them to knock it off.
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solReaper
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TurbroPunz
Jul 25 2012, 09:17 PM
If anyone here starts being a jackass to you for this, I'll them them to knock it off.
And I will literally knock them off. Like punch their faces off of their heads.
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crossedVictor
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Well, this was unexpected to hear but you're still a cool person regardless Taai, regardless of whether you're transgendered or not. I also hope you the best of luck with your parents, they'll eventually see it from your side.
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Trueblader
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Congrats on coming out. I'm sorry that your parents don't really support you, but you have my support at least.
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Knowing me I would probably either not be able to find where it goes or put it into the wrong hole

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TurbroPunz
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Sorry, did I say tell? I mean make.
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Mentor
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Hey, you are still my friend, even though we don't talk much. I just found out something new about you, which is cool. It doesn't change who you are personality-wise or friend-wise. Just know that I may make a mistake here and there because I have such a shit memory, but just correct me.

I have a transgender friend who I've known several years as a girl named Jenna before he came out as a guy named Danny. I had to get used to calling him Danny for a while. What's cool is that he never got mad if I made a mistake, even more than once. He knew how forgetful I am. But after a few (many) corrections, I don't get confused with Danny anymore. Through all of this, we never stopped being friends.

Point of the story: Don't worry about your friends. Those who are friends will still be there. Those who stop being your friends were never really friends with you. They were just friends with an illusion placed on you.
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Topaz Luckdragon
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Like everyone else has been saying, this won't change my opinion of you and you have my support.
I also apologize in advance for any times I may screw up pronouns.
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I'm transgendered. I'm a girl...

But this has me a bit confused. You're saying you're FtM, right?
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Galaxy Man
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Topaz Luckdragon
Jul 25 2012, 10:25 PM
Like everyone else has been saying, this won't change my opinion of you and you have my support.
I also apologize in advance for any times I may screw up pronouns.
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I'm transgendered. I'm a girl...

But this has me a bit confused. You're saying you're FtM, right?
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aspirationsCorrupted
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:this string of letters will never hinder the rp:
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Igneous
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Dude, I'm gay. I'm probably the last person who would give you any sort of shit about this.
Igneous - futureDisciple - Jeff Reed, the Scribe of Light

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irritableNontagonist
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Don't take this the wrong way, but your demeanor did seem feminine in a lot of instances to the point where your gender seemed ambiguous.
Really though, in the context of this online community space interaction, that information changes literally nothing for pretty much everyone here, whether or not they agree on any principles surrounding it.
As long as things don't get all confusing with pronouns or whatever, it's probably all good.
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heavenlyYouth
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S'cool.
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With all my love, to this fucking world.
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smilingCesspool
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Thank you everyone... thank you so much ;u;

and yeah... "mtf" as GF said, I'm sorry if that wasn't very clear hahaa ^^' I was extremely nervous typing that up and i guess i didn't realize it wasn't clear...
Edited by smilingCesspool, Jul 26 2012, 06:45 PM.
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