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Pedophilia... are you born that way?
Topic Started: Sep 4 2012, 10:56 PM (294 Views)
TheCheetahwings
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So I saw the discussion was being debated in the Death penalty thread, and thought I'd start a thread here so people can debate it here. The question is, are you born to be attracted to children, like you are born liking girls, men, or both?

Personally, I don't think you are, and here's why:

1. When you think about it, if pedophilia was not as gross as it is, how would you be with a person? They would eventually, grow up and not be kids anymore. Would you just dump every kid as soon as they go through puberty? Of course in life you don't HAVE to be in a long term relationship, but shouldn't there at least be the possibility? I mean I don't get how your entire sexuality can be based on someone's AGE, someone's innocence. It isn't the same as two consenting adults that love eachother, it is about an adult taking advantage of a kid that barely knows about sex in the first place.

2. It has also been proven that part of what pedophiles IS feeling more powerful, and dominant to their victims. They feel in control, and powerful.


So overall, I don't think you could be 'born a pedophile' any more then you could be born a murderer, you grow into it, from childhood experiences; sometimes being abused yourself (and it's been proven, most pedophiles were abused as kids). And it bothers me when people compare this to homosexuality to say why gay's shouldn't get married (because then pedophiles would be able to marry kids eventually obviously :huh:) , because it is completely different.
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AmandaYoung
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Even if you are, it's no excuse to sexually abuse kids or have child porn (which is also sexual abuse of children)
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TheCheetahwings
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Agreed. There is no excuse to harm children, (I always feel sick when I see stories of pedos saying they can't 'help it') Of course they can help it, they don't molest kids and dont watch children getting molested. It's disgusting.
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GreatNorthern
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Lolwow.

This is just my belief. But nobody just "gains" a sexual attraction to whatever. Sure, I guess childhood trauma can bring it out, but overall, it has a lot to do with birth. Like, there are people sexually attracted to objects-- even world-famous landmarks. A woman pursued this attraction and married the fucking Eiffel Tower. I highly doubt these people were abused by... objects, or whatever, when they were kids.

I'm not relating it to homosexuality because I'm homophobic. I'm not. I'm saying that people are just born with "mental disorders." Some "disorders" are acquired in accidents later in life-- even with accounts of people waking up from an accident, suddenly "gay," or schizophrenic, or a pedophile. It's more than just feeling "dominant" as the grown adult in a relationship with an innocent child. It's sexual attraction.

It's wrong. But natural. It's just another one of those "dangerous" mental disorders people are born with. Even though it's not technically a mental disorder, it's just a different way of thinking-- a sexual attraction to children, as opposed to men, or women, or objects.

I'm not supporting pedophilia. I think it's... just fucking disgusting and wrong on so many levels; robbing a child of their innocence. It's a damnable offense. But it is possible to be a pedophile, and not commit the associated heinous acts. Just like a person can be a virgin all their life. "Childhood trauma" is what drives these pedophiles to commit the acts, much like rapists and murderers.
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Zombi
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You know I share your controversial beliefs, Nick. (zombiethumbsup)
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I believe then, that our world is horribly fucked up.

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WickedBitch
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everybody already knows my stand on this debate and how i feel about pedophiles, these people make a choice to rape children,you are not born being attracted to children, you choose to be attracted to them.
Edited by WickedBitch, Sep 5 2012, 11:39 AM.

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Yeah, I basically agree 100% with Kenny. I find it rather hard to believe that someone can just be born to like children, it is very different then being born loving men/women.
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AmandaYoung
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Sep 5 2012, 04:49 PM
Yeah, I basically agree 100% with Kenny. I find it rather hard to believe that someone can just be born to like children, it is very different then being born loving men/women.
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Still no excuses@all. Hurt the child.... GTFOAndDie
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A pedophile who prayed upon Boy Scouts was a respected and trusted member of my former church. He was eventually arrested and prosecuted. He turned down staying in a minimum security prison so that he could go to the best prison in Illinois for treatment of sexual predators. I've interviewed experts ont he subject. Most, but not all, will tell you that a person chooses to sexually abuse children because they don't derive sexiual pleasure form it, but rather they enjoy dominating others. He was abusive in his "sham" marriage, abusive to his own children, but not sexually (they were girls, and he only derived pleasure from dominating young boys). It was such a tragedy back in the 90s, with TV reporters lined up at the church every sunday for a month until the next big story wondered along. Most experts will tell you that the treatments for sexual predators we have at present are woefully inadequate, and that a person who becomes a predator like this is, at present, destined to stay oen the rest of their days.

BTW, the gentelman from my former church has been released from prison and must remain 1,000 feet from a school or any other "likely gathering place of young children".
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