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Do I scare Noobs
Topic Started: Jan 10 2012, 07:34 PM (307 Views)
JustJoy
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All about the fish tacos

Cruervo
Jan 18 2012, 11:19 AM
In fact, I saw on that show when a woman was having problems from getting pregnant all the time it was suggested her husband get another wife to spread his sexual frustrations with.
Well after having only two children, I can totally see their point and believe it or not, it's not a bad idea. At one point I was going to request that my husband go get what we Italian Americans call a "gommara" which basically means mistress. :lol: :cheers1:
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I'm doing a paper on polyamory for one of my classes.
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Cruervo
Jan 18 2012, 06:00 PM
I'm doing a paper on polyamory for one of my classes.
Well I really don't believe in that, but after being married and having children, I'm a lot more open minded than I used to be.
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You talk about it an awful lot. I think you are considering it. My reccomendation is not to. The people that do this seem selfish and delusional. I am reading a book by a big polyamory community leader, and it's very strange. One thing that annoys me is that whenever she is reciting an anecdote... Like whenever a couple is having issues because one person is upset that his/her partner is sleeping around because he/she is not satisfied it is ALWAYS the monogamous person who is at fault and needs to change.
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All about the fish tacos

Cruervo
Jan 18 2012, 08:37 PM
You talk about it an awful lot. I think you are considering it. My reccomendation is not to. The people that do this seem selfish and delusional. I am reading a book by a big polyamory community leader, and it's very strange. One thing that annoys me is that whenever she is reciting an anecdote... Like whenever a couple is having issues because one person is upset that his/her partner is sleeping around because he/she is not satisfied it is ALWAYS the monogamous person who is at fault and needs to change.
That's because I know people that do it. There are a lot of swingers around here. That stuff isn't for me though. I've even asked my husband about it and he agrees with me.

I clown around about it Cruervo. I'm actually very old fashioned. ;)
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;) Of course, I can't put in "selfish and delusional" into my paper unles I have substantial psychiatric evidence. I am doing specifically "open relationships" which means married but with additional liasons. I am going to argue that the psych-social issues that it supposedly deals with is instead more of a facilitation than healthy living. Not to mention the explosion of STD's that have come since this movement started gaining ground despite an increase in sexual education.
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Jan 19 2012, 02:07 PM
;) Of course, I can't put in "selfish and delusional" into my paper unles I have substantial psychiatric evidence. I am doing specifically "open relationships" which means married but with additional liasons. I am going to argue that the psych-social issues that it supposedly deals with is instead more of a facilitation than healthy living. Not to mention the explosion of STD's that have come since this movement started gaining ground despite an increase in sexual education.
I guess you can't use those phrases unless you can support them. I do think it's selfish and delusional though. I think it's like the "grass is always greener" mentality. You think you want something until you actually have or experience it and then it's not at all what you thought.

I was never really promiscuous though and for me that might have something to do with the way I think. I was always in love or in deep like with anyone I ever fooled around with. I also just can't imagine being with a few different guys, while being committed to someone else, married or not. I don't even give myself the chance to like someone other than my husband in that way. There just doesn't seem to be any reason for it. :dunno:

Shit, I'm over Hedo's two line limit. :scared:
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Jan 19 2012, 03:51 PM
Cruervo
Jan 19 2012, 02:07 PM
;) Of course, I can't put in "selfish and delusional" into my paper unles I have substantial psychiatric evidence. I am doing specifically "open relationships" which means married but with additional liasons. I am going to argue that the psych-social issues that it supposedly deals with is instead more of a facilitation than healthy living. Not to mention the explosion of STD's that have come since this movement started gaining ground despite an increase in sexual education.
I guess you can't use those phrases unless you can support them. I do think it's selfish and delusional though. I think it's like the "grass is always greener" mentality. You think you want something until you actually have or experience it and then it's not at all what you thought.

I was never really promiscuous though and for me that might have something to do with the way I think. I was always in love or in deep like with anyone I ever fooled around with. I also just can't imagine being with a few different guys, while being committed to someone else, married or not. I don't even give myself the chance to like someone other than my husband in that way. There just doesn't seem to be any reason for it. :dunno:

Shit, I'm over Hedo's two line limit. :scared:
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