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Sex Education; Virginity, Age of Consent, and STDs
Topic Started: Sat Apr 7, 2007 6:48 pm (9,584 Views)
TheRyanHimself
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Selli
Oct 2 2007, 12:22 PM
omg, I don'T even want that kind of relationship, much to straining and I don't have time for it. Besides, all guys are SO childish until they're 30 or so @_@ sooooo annoying, no, for me it's not worth it, I have better things to do .-.
TRH if you don't like her, then don'T sleep with her O_O'''

Number 1..I resent being called childish.

Number 2. I do like her..most of the time. I just don't see myself marrying her or anything. Besides...she pursues sex from me..not the other way around.
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Selli
Oct 2 2007, 05:22 PM
omg, I don'T even want that kind of relationship, much to straining and I don't have time for it. Besides, all guys are SO childish until they're 30 or so @_@ sooooo annoying, no, for me it's not worth it, I have better things to do .-.
TRH if you don't like her, then don'T sleep with her O_O'''

How old are you?
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AmbitiousConqueror
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@ TRH - Then just say no. That simple. What's she gonna do, break up with you for another hour or so? It doesn't even matter if she breaks up permanently with you if you don't even see you and her together in the future.

@ Will - Check her profile <_<

@ Zhou Yu - You're the man!
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Alfie
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Taking the topic back to a page ago, I am also quite shallow myself, despite going out with a couple of distinctly average looking girls (And me being distinctly average looking).

Nothing's changed since I last posted here though, topic wise <_<
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Sep 29 2007, 08:19 PM
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Sep 29 2007, 06:22 AM
AmbitiousConqueror
Sep 29 2007, 12:12 AM
Aww! You shoulda smacked that bastard one!

Naw then it'd just make me look as bad as him. Besides I liked my reputation as a generally nice, nonviolent person. Had he laid a finger on me though I definitely would have kicked his a**. And what was worse for him was the fact that the rest of the football team were better friends with me than with him. Plus the idiot had been drinking a lot.

Wise decision, mate. besides, if he wants to bring it it'll be his fault, THEN u can smack him one :D

Thanks guys. I really hate violence though. That's one of the reasons sex can complicate things. Besides I'm 18 now. I get into a fight and go straight to jail. And there is always someone tougher than you in there. Besides the girl I'm dating now I like much more than her. P.S. She's Asian. So we face a lot of problems me being a black guy.
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Alegretto
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Heh, I'm too busy with work and school to even consider a boyfriend, much less sex and babies and whatnot.

If only my mother would realize that. She keeps trying to pressure me into getting a boyfriend, getting married, and then getting her grandkids.
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AmbitiousConqueror
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Alegretto
Oct 4 2007, 12:53 PM
Heh, I'm too busy with work and school to even consider a boyfriend, much less sex and babies and whatnot.

If only my mother would realize that. She keeps trying to pressure me into getting a boyfriend, getting married, and then getting her grandkids.

HAH! Be thankful. My mom does the exact OPPOSITE.

"Try not to date till 18 blah blah gotta look out for bad people blah blah care this careful that careful everything."

I'M 17 HERE! <_<
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My mom gets all "You're too young to date". Or maybe I'm irresponsible. If I did have sex, and if I was going to be a father, I'd be screwed. Me, raise a child, imagine.
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Alfie
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My Mum says if I bring a girl home she is going to kill her <_<
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AmbitiousConqueror
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Go like "I dare you." :P So wait... does that mean you aren't allowed to have female friends either? :blink: That would SUCK...
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Alegretto
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AmbitiousConqueror
Oct 4 2007, 03:04 PM
Alegretto
Oct 4 2007, 12:53 PM
Heh, I'm too busy with work and school to even consider a boyfriend, much less sex and babies and whatnot.

If only my mother would realize that. She keeps trying to pressure me into getting a boyfriend, getting married, and then getting her grandkids.

HAH! Be thankful. My mom does the exact OPPOSITE.

"Try not to date till 18 blah blah gotta look out for bad people blah blah care this careful that careful everything."

I'M 17 HERE! <_<

Trust me, when you hit legal age, it will most likely change. My mom did that when I was still 17.

I'm 20 now, and I know my mom's applying the pressure because she had me late... and if I have kids late as well, then she's going to be in her late 60s-early 70s. I can see her wanting the grandchildren while she's still active enough to play with them, but eh. Go harass my brothers for the grandkids!
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M.O.G.
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Alegretto
Oct 5 2007, 12:23 AM
AmbitiousConqueror
Oct 4 2007, 03:04 PM
Alegretto
Oct 4 2007, 12:53 PM
Heh, I'm too busy with work and school to even consider a boyfriend, much less sex and babies and whatnot.

If only my mother would realize that. She keeps trying to pressure me into getting a boyfriend, getting married, and then getting her grandkids.

HAH! Be thankful. My mom does the exact OPPOSITE.

"Try not to date till 18 blah blah gotta look out for bad people blah blah care this careful that careful everything."

I'M 17 HERE! <_<

Trust me, when you hit legal age, it will most likely change. My mom did that when I was still 17.

I'm 20 now, and I know my mom's applying the pressure because she had me late... and if I have kids late as well, then she's going to be in her late 60s-early 70s. I can see her wanting the grandchildren while she's still active enough to play with them, but eh. Go harass my brothers for the grandkids!

Hahaha :lol: I understand how you feel. I just turned 18 like 4 months ago and my mom is already harassing me about when I'm going to have kids. I keep telling her I just started college can I at least wait till I graduate. :P
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Not having girls in your room.... -shudders- I don't remember the last time I DIDN'T have one. It's just so typical. I actually had a girlfriend for a year and a half who I loved more than anything, and we actually never had sex. This is when I was 17 and 18 mind you. Just goes to show that leaving a guy and girl alone who are dating doesn't always mean "They Havinz Teh SEXORZ!!111 LOLZ!!!"
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Two years my grandmother was asking me when i was going to get married, i was 14 mind you.

I've never considered having sex with any girl, though about it sure, but never considered it seriously because:
1. Its against my religion to have sex before marriage
2. Too young, i dont feel like i need to, i have so many years ahead of me, why waste it now. This may sound cliched but i want it to actually mean something and be with someone special that i care about.

I've had a few girlfriends, a couple of them for a few months but we never discussed doing the act as we saw it unnecessary and didnt want to ruin the bond we had, i'm still really good friends with them even after we broke up and i feel that if sex was involved we wouldnt be able to have and maintain a friendship like we have now, i feel it wouldve been strained and yeah. I just dont view it as necessary and frankly can wait for it without compromising my integrity or religion. Though for people who have its there own business and i dont look down at them at all, a couple of my best friends have had it and i havent lost any respect for them at all, if you're ready for it and sober(aware of what you're getting yourself into figuratively and literally) then go for it whoever you are, you're still awesome people, nothing can change that.
So i'm still a virgin and proud of it.
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M.O.G.
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Oct 5 2007, 08:04 AM
Two years my grandmother was asking me when i was going to get married, i was 14 mind you.

I've never considered having sex with any girl, though about it sure, but never considered it seriously because:
1. Its against my religion to have sex before marriage
2. Too young, i dont feel like i need to, i have so many years ahead of me, why waste it now. This may sound cliched but i want it to actually mean something and be with someone special that i care about.

I've had a few girlfriends, a couple of them for a few months but we never discussed doing the act as we saw it unnecessary and didnt want to ruin the bond we had, i'm still really good friends with them even after we broke up and i feel that if sex was involved we wouldnt be able to have and maintain a friendship like we have now, i feel it wouldve been strained and yeah. I just dont view it as necessary and frankly can wait for it without compromising my integrity or religion. Though for people who have its there own business and i dont look down at them at all, a couple of my best friends have had it and i havent lost any respect for them at all, if you're ready for it and sober(aware of what you're getting yourself into figuratively and literally) then go for it whoever you are, you're still awesome people, nothing can change that.
So i'm still a virgin and proud of it.

I completely respect that. Really I cna honestly say that so far for me sex has been completely overrated. I would encourage everyone to wait until it was with someone they veiw as special to them. That's what I did and I can say it couldn't have turned out any better. I was dating the girl for a year and a half before we had sex. But enough about me. And technically it's against my religon to. That's why i still feel guilty about it. :(
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Alfie
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AmbitiousConqueror
Oct 5 2007, 12:40 AM
Go like "I dare you." :P So wait... does that mean you aren't allowed to have female friends either? :blink: That would SUCK...

Actually no, she's a bullshitter.

I have plenty anyway.
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Honestly, I think it's a shame that some many young kids have the urge to lose their virginity at age 12 or 13... even 15. I mean, how pleasurable do they expect the experience to be at 12 years old?
Maybe I'm slightly conservative, but I'm personally am waiting for someone really special, someone that I'd like to be friends with for the rest of my life.. I'm 18 and not ashamed to say that I am a virgin. In fact, I'm rather proud.
I mean, to be honest, the act of sexual intercourse almost terrifies me... I'm female, so, yeah, it's gonna be painful. <_< My cousin told me it was painful the first 3-4 times for her... so yeah, I'm nervous.
I dunno, I haven't had much relationship experience to begin with. I've just started college and have already met this guy that I like, but I'm afraid all he wants out of a relationship is just lust... and I know I'll only get hurt that way.
So yeah, I'm not positive I'll wait until marriage, simply because that idea is almost laughable now a days. I mean, I would if I was with someone who wanted to, but it's a bit unrealistic in today's society. It 's tough, because if you wait until marriage, there's a big chance you will get married simply to have sex, not because you've truly devoted to each other.
Gaaah... my head hurts. :unsure:
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AmbitiousConqueror
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Manji_Ninja
Oct 6 2007, 01:50 AM
Honestly, I think it's a shame that some many young kids have the urge to lose their virginity at age 12 or 13... even 15. I mean, how pleasurable do they expect the experience to be at 12 years old?
Maybe I'm slightly conservative, but I'm personally am waiting for someone really special, someone that I'd like to be friends with for the rest of my life.. I'm 18 and not ashamed to say that I am a virgin. In fact, I'm rather proud.
I mean, to be honest, the act of sexual intercourse almost terrifies me... I'm female, so, yeah, it's gonna be painful. <_< My cousin told me it was painful the first 3-4 times for her... so yeah, I'm nervous.
I dunno, I haven't had much relationship experience to begin with. I've just started college and have already met this guy that I like, but I'm afraid all he wants out of a relationship is just lust... and I know I'll only get hurt that way.
So yeah, I'm not positive I'll wait until marriage, simply because that idea is almost laughable now a days. I mean, I would if I was with someone who wanted to, but it's a bit unrealistic in today's society. It 's tough, because if you wait until marriage, there's a big chance you will get married simply to have sex, not because you've truly devoted to each other.
Gaaah... my head hurts. :unsure:

No comment.
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Manji_Ninja
Oct 6 2007, 05:50 AM
Honestly, I think it's a shame that some many young kids have the urge to lose their virginity at age 12 or 13... even 15. I mean, how pleasurable do they expect the experience to be at 12 years old?
Maybe I'm slightly conservative, but I'm personally am waiting for someone really special, someone that I'd like to be friends with for the rest of my life.. I'm 18 and not ashamed to say that I am a virgin. In fact, I'm rather proud.
I mean, to be honest, the act of sexual intercourse almost terrifies me... I'm female, so, yeah, it's gonna be painful. <_< My cousin told me it was painful the first 3-4 times for her... so yeah, I'm nervous.
I dunno, I haven't had much relationship experience to begin with. I've just started college and have already met this guy that I like, but I'm afraid all he wants out of a relationship is just lust... and I know I'll only get hurt that way.
So yeah, I'm not positive I'll wait until marriage, simply because that idea is almost laughable now a days. I mean, I would if I was with someone who wanted to, but it's a bit unrealistic in today's society. It 's tough, because if you wait until marriage, there's a big chance you will get married simply to have sex, not because you've truly devoted to each other.
Gaaah... my head hurts. :unsure:

First female I've seen with a Star Wars avi. :lol:

Anyway, I seriously don't see any problem or shame with you or anyone else being a virgin. Of course, I'm currently 15 and sex is about the last thing on my mind, although this is unfortunately not the case with most people my age.

As for you having sex, don't schedule it or prepare some sort of time for doing it. I'm one of those people that always believe that sex is something that isn't planned, it's something just occurs at a certain moment. Don't be afraid to have sex, In fact, I heard it isn't that bad of a feeling for both sexes. It's your choice to do so, but don't feel like there's rules you need to follow for this sort of thing. I would say the experience is overated, as I could see myself always prefer to be on my computer then having sex. Sex is like eating a certain food, there are times you may feel like doing it and times you don't. It's really just a preference thing.

As for this guy, why not just try to have a relationship with him. There's no way your going to get your feelings across by not telling him anything, so why not tell him how you feel and see how things go on from there. If you want to have sex with him, that's your choice entirely. Just don't feel like you NEED to have sex with him. It's up to you if he's the person you want to carry a relationship with. In the country you live in{Not really sure where you live but I still think this applies}, you have a choice of who you want to have a relationship with. So don't feel obliged to have a relationship with anyone unless you really want to.

As for the marriage thing, I don't see it as an excuse to have sex. Just like religion or good & evil, marriage is something that a person believes it to be. If you believe it's an excuse for sex, then that's your opinion. But others see it as a personal bond between two people. I personally see it as a waste of time and money as I feel I can have a personal bondage with someout wasting so much money.

In the end, it's all up to you. There's no need to feel insecure about anything, just do as your mind tells you to.
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AmbitiousConqueror
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Oct 13 2007, 07:24 PM
Manji_Ninja
Oct 6 2007, 05:50 AM
Honestly, I think it's a shame that some many young kids have the urge to lose their virginity at age 12 or 13... even 15. I mean, how pleasurable do they expect the experience to be at 12 years old?
Maybe I'm slightly conservative, but I'm personally am waiting for someone really special, someone that I'd like to be friends with for the rest of my life.. I'm 18 and not ashamed to say that I am a virgin. In fact, I'm rather proud.
I mean, to be honest, the act of sexual intercourse almost terrifies me... I'm female, so, yeah, it's gonna be painful.  <_< My cousin told me it was painful the first 3-4 times for her... so yeah, I'm nervous.
I dunno, I haven't had much relationship experience to begin with. I've just started college and have already met this guy that I like, but I'm afraid all he wants out of a relationship is just lust... and I know I'll only get hurt that way.
So yeah, I'm not positive I'll wait until marriage, simply because that idea is almost laughable now a days. I mean, I would if I was with someone who wanted to, but it's a bit unrealistic in today's society. It 's tough, because if you wait until marriage, there's a big chance you will get married simply to have sex, not because you've truly devoted to each other.
Gaaah... my head hurts. :unsure:

First female I've seen with a Star Wars avi. :lol:

Anyway, I seriously don't see any problem or shame with you or anyone else being a virgin. Of course, I'm currently 15 and sex is about the last thing on my mind, although this is unfortunately not the case with most people my age.

As for you having sex, don't schedule it or prepare some sort of time for doing it. I'm one of those people that always believe that sex is something that isn't planned, it's something just occurs at a certain moment. Don't be afraid to have sex, In fact, I heard it isn't that bad of a feeling for both sexes. It's your choice to do so, but don't feel like there's rules you need to follow for this sort of thing. I would say the experience is overated, as I could see myself always prefer to be on my computer then having sex. Sex is like eating a certain food, there are times you may feel like doing it and times you don't. It's really just a preference thing.

As for this guy, why not just try to have a relationship with him. There's no way your going to get your feelings across by not telling him anything, so why not tell him how you feel and see how things go on from there. If you want to have sex with him, that's your choice entirely. Just don't feel like you NEED to have sex with him. It's up to you if he's the person you want to carry a relationship with. In the country you live in{Not really sure where you live but I still think this applies}, you have a choice of who you want to have a relationship with. So don't feel obliged to have a relationship with anyone unless you really want to.

As for the marriage thing, I don't see it as an excuse to have sex. Just like religion or good & evil, marriage is something that a person believes it to be. If you believe it's an excuse for sex, then that's your opinion. But others see it as a personal bond between two people. I personally see it as a waste of time and money as I feel I can have a personal bondage with someout wasting so much money.

In the end, it's all up to you. There's no need to feel insecure about anything, just do as your mind tells you to.

Did you happen to read the parts before and after her first emoticon?...
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how pleasurable do they expect the experience to be at 12 years old?
Imao best quote everrrr. I know several 12 year olds that have sex LOL LOL LOL.
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Unless you guys actually have a more mature and decent response, then I'm only going to ignore you.
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Actually I wasnt immature about it. I was laughing so hard because I know them and I know someone that a 15 year old likes this 12 year but the 12 year old had sex with this other 15 year old and brags about it. Too young to have sex, I heard alot of stories but gosh I was serious about that being the best quote since the 12 year olds keep thinking it's good to have sex at a early age, I keep thinking to myself... R Kelly... they dont even have the bodies of adults.

It's okay drew, I dont need to heard your opinions, I heard about it and I agree.
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Sex is a Beautiful action God mead for a MARRIED Man & Woman. No more,no less. Marriage is a choice you make as where you spend to rest of your very life with that meant to be someone,where you will share your love for each other rather having Sex are not,be there for each other when hardships come about.

Why do you think they to make vows of
will you take me to be your bride/husband,to have & to hold,for better or for worse,for richer,for poorer,in sickness & inhealth, to love & to cherish,from this day forward,so long as we both shall live?

That is where sex comes in,marriage if be absolutely boring without it. Wouldn't you rather have your first time sex with the person you KNOW will be spending the rest of your life than with just anyone? I would rather lose my virginity for that than not. Sex is what one of the beauties Yhwh used to make the wife bear the child/children in that circle because as the child is the proof that makes them a Famliy & that they are one body not two.

''Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh''

- Genesis 02:24

So,may all means do not have sex outside of that circle. It is meant for the devoted & keep your virginity for that special someone you know will be spending the rest of your life with. It will be hard,however,doesn't the difficulty prove its worth wait.
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There's really no need to give us this Christian faith crap, especially whereas women aren't suppose to have any rights in Christianity...
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