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Topic Started: Sat Mar 28, 2009 7:16 am (5,981,791 Views)
Erminaz
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Sounds like she likes you, it just seems to much to be "friend zoning"
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If everybody is bugging her and she see's your not and she's tired of the guys bugging her she will come to you because your not all up on her thats what I learned.
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:19 am
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:11 am
@Zhou Yin, awww it sounds like definite potential. She is keen it seems to be around you so that's good. Just don't leave it hanging, girls love being made a fuss of, so let her know asap you are interested and invite her out for drinks!
I know the chase is fun, but also knowing you're both interested is good to aswell, otherwise the chase becomes hard and extremely painful.
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I've tried. It's hard, because she never texts me back (which I am inclined to believe is because it IS Finals week for college here). I do get replies back, sometimes, but mostly too far and few in between. We do most of our talking at work, and considering where we work, that is a BLESSING if we get more than 10 minutes of decent conversation.

I won't see her tomorrow since our schedules don't match up, and I refuse to ask her out over the phone. BTW, I'm only 20, lol. Can't get drinks for another 2 months, minus 3 days. I figure, since we already work at a Theme Park, and she's already volunteered to ride a few rides with me, since I've never ridden them yet, I'll just take her up on that, and then we go out to Lunch/Dinner after. I'm just confused. I promise, it seems like she's interested, but honestly, I haven't flirted with another girl in over a year. It seems like I can't remember how to tell if one is attracted. I feel like it'd be obvious to everyone but me, but... Meh...
Haha well it seems like she is already keen on getting you out!
Definitely accept the theme park rides invitation, it would be a great chance for a laugh and have lot's of fun together, then having a meal to tone it down and speak on a quieter level to really get to know one another would be the perfect ending.

Problem with dating is that you worry so much that it will all go wrong and that's why you miss the opportunity, I think for now you've got this good, you've basically already got plans to go out, just make sure you extend the "future" date to dinner and I think it will go great.

And remember the basic Patti rule- Make sure the girl comes first, you seem like a sweet guy so I'm sure you would be a gentleman. Ask questions, but not like an interview, questions that would give her a lot to tell you, without you bombarding her and questions you could possibly reply with "oh yes, I've done that" etc...
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To Do List ok

1) Enjoy not being at school

2) Cry

3) Enjoy the rest of my day
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I met flirty and stare at you alot by her eyes!

Sorry about that!

Awww, that's so cute how you describe her.

Well, to me it seems like she likes you.

I basically do the same thing to the guys I like how you describe her.

But wait touches you where? You mean like a pat on the shoulder.

Oh, are her hugs tight and warm?

Question, does she wave like that to any other guy besides you and also the hugs?

Edit because the quotes where too long lol XD
Edited by Mischievy, Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:31 am.
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Here's how you test it Zhou Yin. Write her a note...saying "Do you like me?" and have three options, "Yes" "No" "Maybe"

Its important to include Maybe, because it's your...back door so to speak. If she says MAYBE, it means no. She's just too nice to say No. But she's still mildly interested in playing. So at the very leat you can have some fun before both of you get bored and move on.

No feelings hurt. :sly:

(Disclaimer: I don't give good advice).
Edited by Mr. Kamikaze, Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:30 am.
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:23 am
If everybody is bugging her and she see's your not and she's tired of the guys bugging her she will come to you because your not all up on her thats what I learned.
Yea. This, basically, lol.

I mean, I'm no amateur, haha. I know how to play the game as good as the rest of them. It's just... Well, for the most part, a lot of the girls I used to talk to were a LOT more obvious than this.

All the guys at the ride now are basically... amateurs. Like, following her around, waiting for her at every turn, basically ignoring the fact that she's only supposed to be on a 15 minute break so that they can have more time to talk to her. And even through all of that, if I insert myself into any conversation, casually, her attention seems to go from them to me so easily...

Strike, I see... I really want to ask her out, I just really don't want my co-workers to hate me, lol. I know this one guy... He REALLY likes her, he's one of the ones following her around all the time... It's just... I want to ask her, I just want to be sure that she actually likes me, and isn't just being friendly to me because every other guy seems interested but me, you know... I'm not sure if I'm making myself obvious. Meh
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I just saw the funniest commercial ever.
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:30 am
NigelCollins24
Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:23 am
If everybody is bugging her and she see's your not and she's tired of the guys bugging her she will come to you because your not all up on her thats what I learned.
Yea. This, basically, lol.

I mean, I'm no amateur, haha. I know how to play the game as good as the rest of them. It's just... Well, for the most part, a lot of the girls I used to talk to were a LOT more obvious than this.

All the guys at the ride now are basically... amateurs. Like, following her around, waiting for her at every turn, basically ignoring the fact that she's only supposed to be on a 15 minute break so that they can have more time to talk to her. And even through all of that, if I insert myself into any conversation, casually, her attention seems to go from them to me so easily...

Strike, I see... I really want to ask her out, I just really don't want my co-workers to hate me, lol. I know this one guy... He REALLY likes her, he's one of the ones following her around all the time... It's just... I want to ask her, I just want to be sure that she actually likes me, and isn't just being friendly to me because every other guy seems interested but me, you know... I'm not sure if I'm making myself obvious. Meh
Oh screw him, you have to be a bitch when it comes to love, that's just how it works. If this girl likes you and not him he will just have to get over it lol! But you could be wondering for a long long long time and BOOM, someone else got yo girl!
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:27 am
Sorry about that!

Awww, that's so cute how you describe her.

Well, to me it seems like she likes you.

I basically do the same thing to the guys I like how you describe her.

But wait touches you where? You mean like a pat on the shoulder.

Oh, are her hugs tight and warm?

Question, does she wave like that to any other guy besides you and also the hugs?

Edit because the quotes where too long lol XD
It all depends on the situation. I remember the first time she touched me, I was pretending I was sad because I had a LATE shift to work and couldn't find anyone to trade with me. She gave me a slight pat on the head, and offered to bake me cookies.

The hug was kinda tight. Very, in fact. Like, I was kinda surprised, because it wasn't like I'd asked for one. She offered to do it earlier, but I turned her down, pretending to be mad. The second time, she basically just... took it, lol.

I haven't seen her wave like that to any other guy, but at my job, it's hard to know. The different hours, the differing breaks. For all I know, she could be doing to me what she does to some other guy while I'm on break, ya know.

@strike, I was telling one of my co-workers that, also. I asked him would it be kinda mean for me to flirt with the girl the other guy liked, and he was like... If she's single, it's open field.
Edited by Zhou Yin, Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:34 am.
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@Zhou Yin

By you saying that all the guys seem to have interested in her. Makes me think that maybe she see you as the guy who isn't amateur like the other guys.

Man, those guys you explain seems like their all over her ******. Gave that girl some space!

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Mischievy
Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:35 am
@Zhou Yin

By you saying that all the guys seem to have interested in her. Makes me think that maybe she see you as the guy who isn't amateur like the other guys.

Man, those guys you explain all over her ******. Gave that girl some space!

LMAO exactly!

Aslong as this co worker isn't like a best friend ever, then you have no reason not to go there, even if it was someone you occasionally speak to, eh, sod him.


Zhou you got this in the bag, you just need to have confidence, it's you she has taken an interest in.

DO IT DO IT DO IT!
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Mischievy, that's what I'm saying!!! Like, really. She's new to the job, let her do her thing. Let her COME TO YOU. Lol. It's nice to be after at, but... Wait... I'm... about to say things I shouldn't, lol.

Anyways, they are making very big mistakes, and I feel like I should explain to them. I don't know. I feel weird. Like, I'm a good flirt, it's just when it comes to not knowing if a girl likes me. I just don't want to be put in a situation where it's awkward between she and I.

I'm going to. I sent her a text earlier that I had a question to ask her, since she says that she might not have time to bake the cookies again. On Saturday. I'm gonna check her schedule tomorrow, and see if I'd have a good chance to ask her during the day. Most likely check her on one of my breaks, if she's not working platform. I want to ask her alone. She really seems to be more receptive to me when we're alone. Wednesday was the first day where I'd actually seen her single me out in front of everyone else so obviously.

Honestly, the hug really caught me off guard. That's why, at first I didn't reciprocate, because I was like... Wait, what? Lol. And then I realized it was the real deal, and half of my (female) co-workers were already looking at me, including Melissa (who knows I like her), smiling, so I was like... Okay, sure. And I just enjoyed it, lol.
Edited by Zhou Yin, Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:41 am.
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When I get older i'm gonna do my studies in China and Japan to learn even more about their culture than I already do know.
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Hehe blushing?
You'll do fine!

I'm sure if you make her feel comfortable and do it in a manner where you sort of make her feel like you are serious, I've seen someone ask a girl out like "oh okay well I don't know what to say, errrr" ERGH CUT!
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@Zhou Yin...

Argh this reminds me of what my friend is going though like a week ago!
Her hug were tight huh? Does she like giving tight hugs?
I know it's weird. But ask her that to make sure.

Because for me even though I have a Bf. I gave all my friends tight hugs and I really mean it. But I mostly do that because I want my friend to have a good day.

Mmm... she seem comfortable around you.

Damn it.. that suck I need more info to make sure.. If she does wave like that to other guys..it can mean a friendzone kinda way towards you.
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Zhou Yin can put his charms on her, you thinking of buying anything for the girl? And make sure she is not a user I been through that before.
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OMM: Skimming this thread to procrastinate is hard when so much text :mellow:

Also OMM; it's funny how "British accent" tends to mean English. :mellow:
Scottish rarely gets applied, and I don't think Welsh or such do either, but dunno there. :mellow:

I'd take my Scottish one any day :ph43r:
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Meh. I'm going to go for it. I haven't seen her hug any other guys. And honestly, I don't see her waving to anyone else like that, either... I mean, Katy is a lesbian. And engaged. And she only got a regular wave. I got the cute one.

Also, she doesn't seem like the type to just give out hugs. Maybe she is... But, I felt like I was that exception. Maybe I read too much into it, but it just seems like all the signs say either she's VERY interested, or I'm getting FRIEND-ZONED to the Max. And honestly, I don't think It's possible for me to get THAT friend-zoned. She never talks to me about other guys, or life problems or any of that. I've been friend-zoned before, and the way we act around each other feels different.

NO girl, aside from my ex, has ever baked me anything. I don't know... But I'm gonna try. I got to. I mean, technically, she already asked me to hang out with her. She was the one who said she'd like to ride the coasters with me. Made the plans to find a similar day off so we could do it. I could simply just take her up on that offer, and then just throw in a, "And after, I can buy you lunch somewhere. We can talk for a bit, outside of work, with all it's distractions and a frickin train running in front of us every twenty seconds, making conversation impossible". Or something like that, that'll make her laugh.
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it is entirely possibly she is just a flirtatious girl. Some girls just have that natural charm...

But what the hell, you never take a risk you never get rewards. The worst she can do is turn you down...then life goes on.

You got dis, man!
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:53 am
it is entirely possibly she is just a flirtatious girl. Some girls just have that natural charm...

But what the hell, you never take a risk you never get rewards. The worst she can do is turn you down...then life goes on.

You got dis, man!
*claps*
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Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:53 am
it is entirely possibly she is just a flirtatious girl. Some girls just have that natural charm...

But what the hell, you never take a risk you never get rewards. The worst she can do is turn you down...then life goes on.

You got dis, man!
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:cool:

That's how I'm seeing it. Another learning lesson, and then on to the next.

She just really confuses me sometimes. Good girl, I really just want some alone time with her, to actually see who she is outside of work.

It's a good thing I can fake as much confidence as I'm gonna need for this.

Ugghh... Saturday is just too long away, and I have to work tomorrow... At least I gets paid tomorrow, also.

I just can't wait. I need to gauge her one more time before I ask. I want to see how she acts around all the other guys, just to be sure...
Edited by Zhou Yin, Fri Apr 26, 2013 4:58 am.
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NO girl, aside from my ex, has ever baked me anything. I don't know... But I'm gonna try. I got to. I mean, technically, she already asked me to hang out with her. She was the one who said she'd like to ride the coasters with me. Made the plans to find a similar day off so we could do it. I could simply just take her up on that offer, and then just throw in a, "And after, I can buy you lunch somewhere. We can talk for a bit, outside of work, with all it's distractions and a frickin train running in front of us every twenty seconds, making conversation impossible". Or something like that, that'll make her laugh.


DO IT! Okay, this quote made think that their is a possibility right here dude! Good luck on your date with her.

About the baking...mmm interesting because I'm 20 and I knew so many girl baked cookies for friend who they just barely met.

Blah, anyways! ZHOU YIN!!!!!!!! GO FOR IT!! If you believe something could happen between you guys! Just do it! Follow what you think is right in end! :heart: :heart: :heart:
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:cool: :rolleyes: :D

Lol. You see where I'm coming from. it's like... Wow. That Hug, and that wave, and those looks, and the talks. I mean, not to mention the one lunch last Saturday, when she found me before I went on shift. She asked me to eat lunch with her, and then, instead of going to a table with a few other of our co-workers, she instead followed me to a booth, isolated away from them. I was gonna get her number then, but one of our co-workers found us back there and c0ck-blocked the HECK out of me. I got it later that day, though :yes:

It's just... This is one of those extreme cases of either flirting, or FriendZone level MAX. Or maybe I'm just THAT bad at telling when a girl is interested in me anymore.
Might just take a page out of the handbook of the Sixth Man of the Year (in a contract year), JR Smith... And ask her, straight up... "You trying to get the pipe?" :whistle: :rolleyes: :shifty:
Edited by Zhou Yin, Fri Apr 26, 2013 5:06 am.
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Just wait for a deadly snow storm to hit and lock yourselves up in a library while burning books to keep from freezing to death. Make sure everyone dies before that though...you don't any nasty third wheels.

Evidently some good and strong relationships get formed through those kind of experiences...
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